What Do u think about?

by J on 13 Mar 2006, 00:18

xxx B4 Marriage?

by **Sarah** on 13 Mar 2006, 10:55

never

by **LeBR0N** on 13 Mar 2006, 11:35

im against it ...

by **ram** on 13 Mar 2006, 11:38

it is not wrong , if u really like the person or u love him. the islamic and christian religion forbeden xxx b4 mariage because there a lot of people having it and having maladies or having kids and frowing them away ... but now u have protection and u have a head to use u know if it is right 2 do it with the person or no . but no it isn't wrong.

by **Imad** on 13 Mar 2006, 18:37

sorry ram.. but Yes it is forbidden... and let me explain something u said, what wrong if u liked a person.... I said what if a certain cirumstances made u get away of this person.... won't u damage her life....

by **ram** on 13 Mar 2006, 18:44

no, because ur not making the person to have it with u it is her or his choice,and yea it is forbeden now ,and it was forbedan for the reason i just wrote before ,it is not a sin,religion came to help people and those are one of the ways that they could help them but now we have technology ,rights, protection... and so what the person left ,it would be wrong if u do it every week with a diffrent person for pleasur, i prefer it 2 be with a person special to me not any girl

by **dah!j** on 13 Mar 2006, 19:20

chabeb (yi3ni kamen sabaya),

jenny sou2el, ma kanit siyaghto ktir mazbouta, ma3 2ino bas min 3 kilmat.

akid yalli bta3ad 3an watano, w mawjoud bi moujtama3 gharbi

mounfati7, l masmou7 fi aktar min l mamnou3,

akid hal chakhis la7 ykoun 3indo bi hek mawadi3 tifkir teni.

hala2 xxx before Marriage, ma kan masmou7 bi aya moujtama3,

bas chwey chwey saro y ghido l nazar

hon 3indi mathalan bi Germany, chi tabi3i, w ma 3indon fiya michkel,

bi libnen, fakro into ba3ed 10 snin w choufa wen badna nsir,

ana libnen yalli trakto 2abil 4,5 years, ma iisato zato,

yi3ni ktir 2ichya kanit mou7aramat, sarit hala2 2amir tabi3i,

hal chi biyla7zo l wa7id ba3ed sinten ghiyab.

hala2 birja3 lal sou2el,

ana mouch ma3 jines 2abil zawaj (law ktabta bil english kanit ahyan)

ma3 ino amir tabi3i, mawjoud bil 2insen, mino w fi, w ma fi chi 3eb

bas fi 2ichya ma bi2bala 3ala nafsi ana ka 2insan bassit,

akhlakiyan aw min jihet ethical

hayda ra2yi ana

bil niheye l 2insen houwe biy7adid kif yi3mel bi 7ayato.

by **ram** on 13 Mar 2006, 19:41

ana ma3ak 100 %, bass iza bet7eb 2el chakess mich ghalat ,li2anno tnaynetkon bet7ebbo ba3ed hayde ana ma3a, ana dod inno wa7ad ya3mela 3al tale3 w 3al nezel li2anno hal chi battal special hayde sarit ta2 7ana2 ,w ana bfadel tkoun mmayaze .hayke ana bfaker

by J on 13 Mar 2006, 19:51

sa7i7 i am away from lebanon
w true new country w different culture
but i am against such act!
but its a comon subject

by **TAREK** on 14 Mar 2006, 09:40

Halla2 it is kinda embarissing question
But I'll answer
Actually I agree wiz it, but not just for fun,az ram said, if you like da person, and you both love each other, and in anywayz if dis person just adore you, and you can't leave him, and it's clearly dat you both are not gonna marry each other, in dis situation, I see and I agree wiz it.
But according to us, or in general to me, I see it is a bad thing to do, but sometimes you must forget your ways in living and change it.
El mohem ma answer is No, I totally disagree wiz dis, sa7i7 it is life full of fun, but let us just keep on da line and same way. Rgrds TAREK

by **LebDieHard** on 15 Mar 2006, 00:06

w min byodman lal banet innak bet 7ebba w ra7 teb2a ma3a ba3den?? before marriage kello le3eb w 7aki 3al fade ..

w ba3den min al inno hayda houwwe l calibre lal ness l open minded ??
haydi kommet l jahel ..

w metel ma elto bi america w europe chaghle 3adiyye ktiir , bass kelkon 3am tchoufo metel ma ana 3am chouf , bya3jebkon kif 3aychin 7ayeton l ijtima3iyye w 3ala2eton bi 3ayleton ??

akid la2 , ba3edna a7san mennon bi 10000 marra bi hal chaghlet , w lezim ndal m7afzin 3layhon

Still girl's dignity aham chi fiha , to guys who don't mind having these relations before marriage , can u even think about marrying a woman knowing she's been sleeping with 5-10 guys before u !!

by **ram** on 15 Mar 2006, 00:48

u can't say if it is wrong or right because we are human , and we only know a small part of the truth . so we each have different theories,thinking,philosophies...and that doesn't mean that one is better than the other they all have some kind truth and some kind of a lie

by J on 15 Mar 2006, 01:26

Reda, i loved ur answer!
and its time for me to talk abt this topic...

Well, for a man.. it doesnt matter.. if he did have a sexual relation b4 marriage, cuz honestly he wont loose anything and no one will judge him .. why .. cuz he is a man!

anyways ..
For a women, well.. we have our verginity.. its the most sacred thing God ever gave us... and its preciouse for every gurl..
and if she lost it .. she will be treated like a bitch .. specially in our Arabic World ..
Here in canada or even Usa .. well they do care for it ..
untill 16 .. when they become open to life and those movie and bla bla bla .. so they want to experience it ..
and school basicly here have several lectures and give books abt safe xxx ..
Some goes with the flow .. and looose it .. other dont .. they keep it clean .. and all goes back to thier background
inou sahih houn min shouf l falaten .. bas trust me ktiir mnazmeen .. w laws w 2esas .. l falaten 3ina !!!
back to topic
I myself . believe in xxx after marriage ..
not because i was raised like that
but i believe that .. a women should loose her Virginity to the one she love .. cuz it takes one time to loose it and u cant get it back ..
so if u wana loose it .. it better be with the one and only the one who u want to spend ur life with ....
hala2 if u have a different openion .. then when u loose it randomly .. tell me what is ur feeling afterwards .. for sure u will feel guilty even thou with this passionate feeling while xxx

by **ram** on 15 Mar 2006, 01:35

yea in lebanon and in the arabic country they are animals(7ayawenet), they don't give woman her right , and i hate them for that , and that is wrong , god didn't make any rules about man being better than woman ,so they both should be treated equally . it is not wrong for neither man or woman to do xxx or a lot of other things they are free in there life , but i prefer the sexual relationship to happen after knowing true love after u are 100% sure about it .it might be wrong for some people and it might be right for the others but in the end it is not wrong or right it is a choice of doing it or not

by **ram** on 15 Mar 2006, 01:39

w rida , 3am bet 2oul chou be 2akedelna inno la7 ndalna ma3 ba3edna . sou2al . mich bel din 2el 2esleme 2elak 7a2 bel zawej 2arba3 marrat ?, mich fik ttale2e 2el mara be kel 2el dyenet w tetjawaz ghayra?choufi fare2 bain hayde w bel xxx abel 2el jawez hiyye zeta 2abadan bass fi fare2 inno madyet war2a 2enouniyye w bass

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